A Tale of Two Slave Applicants

Goddess Kira is out of town, but She shared some messages with me that She received just before She left.   She asked me to post them to show what a vast difference there is between potential slaves.

dear mistress:

Gender m

Age 45

Location xxxxxxx fl

Relationship status

Sexual orientation stright

Years of experience in BDSM 2

Previous service or ownership (if any) no

Specific fetishes you practice or wish to practice  toilet for u

Specific fetishes you are unable to practice (with reasons) scat

Vanilla activities: work sector, level of employment and ball-park annual income

Amount of time and resources you can devote completely to the Goddess (daily or weekly percentages)

Rate your personal commitment to obeying the Goddess and following Her training requirements and assignments (percentage) 100 percent

Your motivation must highlight: spit pee

What role you wish to have in My world as ur toilet

What special abilities you can offer compared to other applicants good spit swallow. drink ur pee

Why you should be placed ahead of other applicants i am better

What motivates you to serve the Goddess: what your future hopes are and why you apply to Goddess Kira, rather than another Mistress as ur personal toilet

Where you would like to be, if accepted, in: six months, one year, five years. for ever for ur toilet

If you look at Goddess Kira's letter of introduction web page http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html he did not follow the instructions at all.  And i am personally very annoyed that he used the lazy texting u and ur instead of showing respect to Goddess Kira by addressing Her with "You" and "Your".  i ask anyone reading this if they would be impressed by this letter of introduction?

But Goddess Kira, who had already left on Her trip, is always polite and replied:

I am out of town this week and next.

I'll be back in touch when I return.

To which this slave was too impatient to wait and sent this:

dear mistress:

we do session, i am ur slave:

i will be naked and kneel down , all fours on floor and kiss ur feet when u show up.

i will swallow ur spit, u spit on my face , ball, penis, asshole (i open my asshole let u spit)

u spit floor i lick it, u spit on shoe i lick, spit on shoe buttom sole ,  i lick it.

u pee in my mouth, i drink all.

u pee on my face, ball, penis, asshole( i open it  to let u pee).

i will eat my cum if i want to cum.

i will drink my pee if i need to pee.

u use ruler to measure my penis, and beat then and ball, tiny dick humiliation.

i will suck ur toes (clean or dirty) and eat ur toenail.

i beg u to use me as ur toilet.

i love lick ur dirty underwear and toilet paper after u wipe,

finally i will be ur full toilet , i will try to be ur full toilet.

ur toilet  for ever

Wow!!

Goddess Kira sent this message back:

you don't sound like a slave to Me.  I suggest you go back to My website and pay particular attention to My blog, the FAQs and the enlightenment page.

His reply:

dear mistress:

i am a chinese toilet slave for u,

my english is not good , sorry about that

but i am really ur toilet do anything u want

ur toilet

i don't even know what to say about that!  But compare this second message She received from another potential slave.  i would say with much more potential.

Dear GODDESS KIRA

my full name is Xxxxx Xxxxxx Xxxxxxxx i am male and 33 years of age.  i am writing to apply for the position of GODDESS KIRAS’ slave.  Currently i am living in Xxxxxxx, Australia, but i am British.  Originally from Xxxxxxx and plan on returning to England next year though no plans are yet finalized.  i'm not currently in a serious relationship, though involved in a casual one but if accepted by GODDESS KIRA could be ended easily!!  i am straight though i do have bi-curious thoughts and a strong forced-bi fantasy with blackmail (never actually performed any sexual acts with another man).  As for my experience within BDSM it isn't substantial.  i have had sessions with mistresses online and over the phone, and though I have visited some of these mistresses more the once or semi-regular, i have never been what you may term “owned”.  In fact i had a short session with GODDESS KIRA on cam contacts under the name CRUELKIRA!!  i was mesmerized, enchanted, i couldn’ t get You GODDESS out of my mind.  Which brought me to Your blogs and website and i can assure you i have read all the posts and articles.  i understand what acceptance would bring, and how serious it is and i haven't come to this decision lightly.  i want this, i want a purpose in life instead of being a slacker with no responsibilities!!  i want that purpose to be you GODDESS KIRA!  i want to serve, obey and make my MISTRESS proud of me!!

i am in full time employment GODDESS KIRA the hours i work vary between 40–50 hours a week!!  And i'm paid weekly about Xxxx Australian dollars depending on the hours i work!  Out of this i have to pay my rent and i also deposit money in my xxxxxx's account to cover outstanding bills from home.  But on average, again depending on the hours i've worked, i would have about Xxx dollars spare expendable per week GODDESS KIRA!!  Apart from work, the only other regular activity i do that takes up my time is the gym which i use most days!!  i have no children, wife or serious girlfriend so all my spare time would be afforded to you GODDESS KIRA as would my spare money!!  i have internet on my phone so i would be contactable anytime GODDESS!!

If accepted GODDESS, i would devote all my spare time and resources into completing training requirements and assignments because i have no ties no other responsibilities other than serving and obeying you GODDESS KIRA!

If accepted i would adhere and obey every one of my GODDESSES instructions and desires i would try my level best to perform whatever role in GODDESS KIRA'S world She wanted me to!!  i'm an extremely loyal person and i keep myself extremely fit working out most days!!  So i would be here for the long haul, a loyal reliable slave.  Though inexperienced i am willing to learn everyday and do whatever GODDESS KIRA asks or desires to prove my worth as a loyal slave!!  A slave GODDESS can be proud of!!

Thank You for your precious time GODDESS KIRA

Kind regards

Xxxxxxx Xxxxxxx

i think we can guess which slave has a better chance of being considered to join Goddess Kira's realm.

-sissy rachel

Donations to the MS Society

Goddess Kira asked me to post this for Her:

 

As many of you know one of My most loyal slaves has suffered from MS for a number of years.  Recently he has taken a turn for the worse.  Due to that I have decided to donate 10% of all My tributes, anything sold off of My website, any NiteFlirt sales and any sales from Clips4Sale or Images4Sale.  I will also match any donations My slaves make as long as they provide proof.

 

If any of you have any experience dealing with MS or know of anything that will help ward off the effects of the disease please pass them on.

 

Goddess Kira

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i just wanted to add my 2 cents and say what an absolutely incredible Woman Goddess Kira is.  The first time i spoke with Her, i knew She was something *VERY* special.  And in the time since, She constantly amazes me with not only Her wisdom and intelligence, but also how much She cares for Her slaves.  This is another prime example of how wonderfully amazing She is!!!!

 

- sissy rachel

 

P.S. here are some links:

 

The National MS Society: http://www.nationalmssociety.org/ 

MS Association of America: http://www.mymsaa.org/

Multiple Sclerosis Foundation: http://www.msfocus.org/

FAQ - What I do and what I don't do

From Goddess Kira:

Over the past week I have spent some time on a couple of vanilla sites, where I get the same questions over and over and over.   I have decided to answer some questions here so I didn't have to answer the same questions again and again.

I guess I've been spending so much time with My loyal slaves lately I have forgotten what pigs untrained men are. I won't mention the two sites because the people on it are so low class.  Most of the time I felt like I was in a brothel.  I am used to getting hit on, but these guys were over the top.  Most of them were so hideous I would never give them the time of day.

The two  most common comments  I received were, "Don't you know that slavery is illegal"?  After I took the time to politely explain what I was looking for, even though it was spelled out in detail in My profile, I would get "How long do i have to do that until you'll sleep with me"?

Below is some general information on this lifestyle and My expectations.  I don't mind taking on a newbie as long as you are sincere and realize this is about Me, not you.  The only way you will get anything is if I am taken care of first.

For general information on Female Domination and Female led relationships go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femdom


To find out what a Dominatrix is and what I do go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix
 
An explanation of Financial Domination: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Financial%20Domination

To find out more about the BDSM lifestyle go to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domination_%26_submission_%28BDSM%29

A definition of a slave in a BDSM lifestyle: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Master/slave_%28BDSM%29   (this link was added to this post on 19-Nov-2013)
 
Here are some answers to other questions I frequently get:


Why I don't have sex with My slaves:

My slaves serve and obey Me – that is their sole purpose.  In ten years of doing this I have never had sex with a slave.  I'm not saying it won't happen, but it is extremely unlikely and it won't happen for a very long time.  All you need think about is serving Me.  If I even allow you to have sex, it certainly won’t be with Me.

Why I don't want to date you, have sex with you or want a boy friend:

I am not a Mistress for dating, finding a boy friend, a husband or sexual partners.  I am a Mistress because it is who I am at the core of My being.  This isn't something that I do as a job or for fun.  I must be in control at all times.  I enjoy seeing how far men will go to please Me.  And take note that none of My slaves are ever allowed to cum, in any way, without My express permission and spend most of their time locked in chastity.

Why I won't give you free pictures:

The first time you go into a restaurant do you ask for a free meal?  If you do I'm sure you are laughed at.  After you prove yourself to be a good customer, the proprietor may give you a free drink or meal on occasion.  I operate much the same way.  Prove yourself to Me and you will be rewarded. 

In addition I am a model.  I sell My photos for a living.  If magazines are willing to pay why shouldn't you?

Why I charge for things on My website:

I have been doing this for ten years now.  In the beginning I gave things away and have found that when I give something away, slaves think it has no value.  When I did give something away to slaves I thought had potential, those slaves then got greedy and never wanted to pay for anything again.  In fact, they think they are so special I should pay them.  Prove you are worthy and we will talk about free stuff.

Why I won't meet you at your convenience:

I'm not saying I'll never meet you, but you must first prove yourself and that will take some time.  I'm not going to meet you based on one e-mail no matter how good it is.  Some of My most trusted slaves have never been in My presence, never seen Me on camera, never even talked to Me on the phone.  I have had slaves spend tens of thousands of dollars and years serving Me and never meet Me in person.

Why I won't do a session with you and then let you go back to your vanilla life:

I am not an escort with a whip.  This is a lifestyle.  I expect you to take it as seriously as I do.  your entire life will revolve around Me or you will be kicked to the curb.  you are to be available when I want you, not the other way around.

What subjects are off limits when talking to you:

I will answer most any question you ask as long as they are polite and respectful.  One subject that is off limits is My sex life.  I am shocked at how often I am asked about My sex life within five minutes of corresponding with someone.

Why I don't want to be your friend:

I have many friends and have a great life.  I'm not looking for friends, but that doesn't mean it won't happen at some point.  I can promise it won't happen five minutes after getting your first e-mail.  I am looking for slaves.  Some of My slaves do become My friends, but they are always slaves first.

And if you really want to be My friend why would you constantly send Me crude, one line e-mails telling Me what you want, without thinking about what I might be looking for?  When I call you on it, why would you send Me an even nastier e-mail?  Always remember it was you that contacted Me.  I can count on one hand the number of slaves I have initiated contact with.


Why I won't cam verify for free:

I have cam verified on several sites such as FinDoms and FemDommeSociety.  I also spend a considerable amount of time on CamContacts and iFriends.  On those two latter sites you get your first 20 seconds free.  you can verify Me on there.

Why I charge for Team Viewer:

Over the years I have had thousands of requests for Team Viewer.  The vast majority disappear as soon as I start snooping around.  you need to prove to Me that you are serious.  If you are really serious about letting Me clean you out what difference does it make when I start?

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I am always willing to answer questions as long as they are polite and respectful and you are truly interested in serving.  What I won't put up with is men that have no intention of serving, but want to correspond with a beautiful woman.  I have been doing this for ten years and am very good at what I do.  I have also developed a very good bullshit detector.

-Goddess Kira

So many slaves, so little perseverance

Goddess Kira wanted me to post this:

In the course of a week I get between 500 and 700 e-mails.  slaves are always asking how to stand out.  Obviously the best way to stand out is to send a tribute, the larger the better.  If that doesn’t work for you go to http://shop.goddesskira.com/My-slave-application-slave-application.htm.  Yes it will cost you a few bucks, but it moves you to second in line.

Another path, that many slaves choose to take, is to write Me an introductory e-mail, hope it catches My eye and makes Me think they have potential.  For those slaves I put them on a program that requires them to write Me everyday.  

It is actually the first step in a three step process.  About 95% of all slaves stop writing within a day or two, and move on to the next Mistress.  After they find out that I am as special as I am, they come back, but many still fall by the wayside.  In the past month I have received e-mails from over 2,000 slaves.  Even though step one is a simple task, only one made it to step two.

Here are four e-mails I received today from people in the program.  An additional 20 dropped out today.  None had the courtesy to tell Me they were no longer interested.

slave a:

Hello Goddess Kira, i hope Your weekend is going well.  i understand that this past week was stressful for You, so i hope that You're having a wonderful time.


slave b:

i am still counting and it is day number 6.  Because of You each day is better than the last.  And i know it will continue this way.

i agree, or should i say, i definitely feel that i have fallen under Your spell.  As far as it getting much worse by this time next week, i consider that a good thing.  i have felt the better in the past 6 days than i have ever felt before.  It is like i have awoken to a new and Amazing life.  With You being the reason.  It is tremendously rewarding to be in Your circle of life with You at the centre.

i have to say that I now have complete trust in You.  I trust You with my life.  And I give You my life.  i trust that You know what is best for me and more importantly what is best for You!

i understand about the Power of Attorney.  That it is a part of Control.  i am single and have no kids so i will not have a problem with it.  Actually i will be happy to give You Power of Attorney.  i feel that it gives us a lot more of a connection.  i understand and know now that whatever was mine is now Yours. Everything I have belongs to You.

Monday is a holiday for us here in Canada as well.  However, to me it is another incredible day to serve You.  You do not have to be concerned at all about me straying from You.  i will only be drawn closer to You.  As far as having other things to do on the weekend, well, there is nothing more important than You!

i  agree that many slaves like to be competitive when it come to giving and buying Your attention.  As far as being in a higher place in the pecking order, i am not too concerned about that.  i am just extremely happy and excited to be in the order!  To be able to be a part of Your Amazing life and to contribute what I can.


slave c

I could read your profile over and over


slave d
yes goddess. Its very true. Since you are my master iam looking for only to serve you and obey your commands. If you are unhappy with me or i dint obeyed ur commands properly you can give me a severe punishments to me.


Who do you think has a chance of making it to the second step?  One of the reasons I have slaves do this task is so that I get to know them.  How do I get to know someone based on a one line e-mail?

If you are truly interested in being owned by Me, shouldn’t writing be the highlight of your day?  To My way of thinking it is a chore for three of the four slaves.  If you can’t complete a simple task like this how are you going to react when you receive a truly difficult task?  My owned slaves still continue to write every day.  Some notes are short, some are long.

If I am going to be your owner someday, shouldn’t I expect to be a priority in your life?  At least those three slaves took 30 seconds out of their day to write a half assed e-mail.  What about the others that couldn’t even be bothered with that?


sissy rachel here again.  i would like to comment on one of the excellent points Goddess Kira's made above.  If you are owned by Goddess Kira and you find writing Her an email is a chore, then something is definitely wrong.  i find that writing Goddess Kira is one of the best parts of my day.  Sometimes i even worry that i write too much, because i know how busy She is.  (She has assured me that She will let me know if i write too much :)

Foot Worship and Leg Worship Videos

Goddess Kira has put two new videos in Her Clips 4 Sale store: http://www.clips4sale.com/studio/68013/Cruel-Kira-s-Store

Two Slave Positions Open

Goddess Kira has two openings for slaves with specific skills.  you MUST have real experience and be able to show it!  Think of it just like a job application, Goddess Kira requires a resume with samples of your prior work:

WEB PROMOTION - Applicant must have experience with promoting someone or something on the Internet.  Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com

BUSINESS PLANNING - Applicant must have experience with writing successful business plans.  Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com

For bonus points, you can also fill out Goddess Kira's "Letter of Introduction" that is on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html 

How to Find a Domme

Goddess Kira receives dozens, if not hundreds of emails every day.  She occasionally shares some of the really crazy ones with me.  i am always stunned by the bizarre messages She receives, for example this one from yesterday:

"yo i want to be a slave i bet if i post my pic on an add and ask Would u make him your slave or date him I get most bitches saying they date me whats good hoe"

Yo, you can't make stuff like that up, LOL!

So Goddess Kira has written the following excellent advice for slaves looking for a Domme:


As an experienced Pro Domme and being very active online on many sites and various social media channels, I get a lot of requests from subs every day – too many.


Here are some guidelines for serious subs to consider before they apply to Me or any other Domme.

Let Me emphasize upfront that supplicants usually fall into a few broad categories:

• Completely inexperienced and ignorant people who think that contacting a Domme is just like dating or looking for cyber sex.

No, it isn’t!

• Internet tourists and even trolls who are just playing games online.

Dommes don’t play – look elsewhere.

• People looking to be “friends”.

Unless you are a Domme yourself, do not attempt this.  Dommes have slaves, not friends.

• Raw beginners, newbies and wannabes who have never actually been owned before.

If this is just a fantasy, come back when you have matured and become serious. If you are a sincere beginner, carry on reading.

• Subs who want everything for free, no matter whether the Domme they approach is a pro or lifestyle Domme.

There is nothing for free!  Even a lifestyle Domme will expect tribute in some way – with pro Dommes, it is simply non-negotiable.

• Subs who move frequently from one Mistress to another – sometimes even “serving” more than one via fake profiles.

While I understand that finding the right Mistress is not easily achieved, this sort of behavior is not practical and, worse still, it is an utter insult to the Mistress(es) involved.

• Subs who are so self-involved that their own fetishes and fantasies are given higher priority than their obedience, leading to the fatal sin of “topping from the bottom”.

No accomplished Mistress will be fooled by any pretty words or excuses that attempt to hide this and you will be rejected.  Be honest first – and then obey your prospective Mistress unconditionally.

• Subs whose constant demand is for contact in real-time.

Grow up.  It takes a long time to find the right Domme and longer still for Her to test whether you are worthy.  Whether you ever get a meeting in real-time is up to Her.

• Subs who are so desperate that they promise everything.

Be realistic.  Can you deliver on what you promise?  No, I didn’t think so.  Failure will not impress your prospective Owner.

• Experienced subs with baggage.

Whatever habits or wounds you have from previously being owned, your new Mistress will not welcome these into Her world.

• Subs with major commitments in the vanilla world.

Whatever your life is or has been, the critical question is how much time, energy and resources can you commit to your Domme.  Whatever the answer, it is Her decision whether what you offer is acceptable.

• Sincere subs with a good attitude.  Pray that you fall into this category!

IF you have not already eliminated yourself by admitting that you fall into any of the unacceptable categories above, here are some frank and candid tips on what to do – and NOT do!

DO NOT:

Communicate as if you are a refugee from Twitter.  A Domme cannot be addressed as “babe”, “hun” or “sexy”!  When you refer to yourself, lose the “I” focus.  You are a slave – act and speak as one!

Make obvious statements that any Domme has heard a thousand times before, such as: “I’m a very submissive sub”; “I do what I am told”; “I will do anything”.  These are all self-evident or delusional statements.

Brag about what you can do for a Domme.  Whether you are rich, handsome, sexually experienced, whatever – these are all irrelevant.  What matters is whether you can do what you are told to do.

Ask what a Domme will do for you – usually “subtly” disguised by asking what She will do TO you.  Find out by obeying!  Anything else is a qualified commitment at best.

Show impatience.  This is not a game – it is a contract.  It takes time to get it all ready.

DO:

Explain and, if possible, prove your sincerity.  This is the first and hardest barrier to overcome.  Can you convince a Domme that you mean it?

Provide, without bragging, some evidence that you are an interesting person.

You are a slave, but that doesn’t mean you have no identity or abilities.  If a Domme wanted only mute obedience, She would get a dog.  If She wanted only comfortable use, a suitable piece of furniture would do the trick.

Show you have some talents and intelligence.  Slaves are used – so don’t give the impression that you are useless.

Have impeccable manners.  If not, do some homework first!

Also let me remind any slaves that have made it this far, Goddess Kira has the template for a Letter of Introduction on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html

Goddess Kira is now on Twitter

You can follow her at: http://twitter.com/Cruel_Kira

 

Period Report

Goddess Kira's princess has filed this report on h.er first period:


My first period

Goddess Kira was kind enough to allow Her sissy to have a “period” at the same time as Her. This was a great privilege and it has taught Her sissy many things. At the end of this report is some technical advice for other slaves who might be allowed this honor.

It was Her sissy’s first-ever “period” and something very special for h.er.

Keeping in step with the Goddess Herself, this was a four-day experience.  Her sissy was using tampons day and night, changing them three times a day (morning, lunch and before bed). Her sissy used tomato sauce as a blood substitute and regular tampons with an applicator (an insertion device).

The tomato sauce had the advantage of giving a mild burning sensation, as did having a tampon inside. It was bearable while standing, somewhat uncomfortable when in bed and very uncomfortable when sitting. It is not supposed to be a comfortable feeling and it all served as a constant reminder that Her sissy is privileged to be owned by – and serve – the Goddess Kira.

Most of all, it is a lesson in what the Goddess and all Superiors have to suffer a few days every month – although a sissy “period” cannot emulate the cramps and other physical symptoms of real menstruation. Apart from the discomfort, there is also the additional burden of changing tampons at regular intervals.

Though uncomfortable on a continuous basis, Her sissy has never felt closer to the Goddess than during this time. In that way, it was wonderful.

Her sissy thanks the Goddess Kira for this treat and cannot wait for h.er next period to begin. s.he also hopes to find some way to simulate the other symptoms of menstruation, such as cramps, breast pain and that bloated feeling.

For slaves who are instructed to have a “period”, here are some notes:

Blood substitutes are many. The Hollywood version is a mixture of corn syrup and food coloring but it doesn’t have the sensation that tomato sauce gives.  Real blood (unless it is your own!) is not recommended for hygiene reasons and chili sauce would be just too much. Whatever is used, it should be inserted manually before inserting the tampon in a suitable quantity to simulate the sensation a Superior would have. The average menstrual flow for a Superior is about 8 to 10 tablespoons of liquid during a 3 to 4 day time frame. It is usually a slightly brown blood color (darker than blood from a cut).

While a tampon can be inserted manually, it is difficult to position it correctly on the inside this way. An applicator (many brands have those included) is a two-part tube. The first part (with a rounded end in front) is inserted until its trailing end just protrudes slightly. The second part is then pushed in, while keeping the first part in position, which releases the tampon in exactly the right place. The applicator is then easily withdrawn, leaving the tampon inside with just the string hanging out. It is recommended that lubricant is used when inserting the applicator.

Plan your disposal of tampons! Male restrooms are not equipped with tampon disposal bins and flushing is not advised. Also, depending on what color lingerie you wear, it might be advisable to use panty shields as well to ensure there are no accidental stains afterwards. Tampons will stay in place securely in most situations but there can be minor leaks, especially for those of us who do not have vaginas!

Chastity Journal Entry

Goddess Kira asked me to post this Chastity Journal entry sent by Her princess:

What the key-holder agreement has done for me:

Your princess last played with h.er clitty two weeks ago, on the Saturday when s.he completed the masturbation schedule.

s.he is happy to report that s.he doesn’t miss masturbating at all, for several reasons. Firstly, the four weeks of the masturbation schedule convinced h.er that it is a stupid, “boy” thing to do. Secondly, Your princess’ sexuality is changing.  Thirdly, Your princess has new pleasures in h.er service to You, which are more important than masturbation and far better.

Your princess admits that h.er clitty does demand attention on occasions, especially when s.he first wakes up, has a sexual dream or when s.he spends time looking at pictures online. These situations are easily resolved as long as s.he applies h.erself to girly activities, which bring those last remaining “male” urges under control quite quickly. Your princess hopes this will be even easier as soon as s.he starts taking hormones.

Your princess is not substituting with other sexual activities.

s.he has not been with a woman for over two months now, although s.he loves to pleasure a Superior – h.er own climax and what gets done to h.er clitty were always secondary issues. s.he has not yet had sex with a man, although that will happen, if h.er Goddess gives h.er permission. s.he has not been with one of h.er TS friends for over a year now. s.he has not used a dildo on h.erself for sexual reasons, even though s.he still uses a plug and dildo just to keep h.erself ready for action at some later stage.

The first thing s.he has learnt from this short period of chastity is not entirely a new lesson. Your princess has always been slightly disgusted by h.er clitty and the only pleasure involved, apart from the brief climax at the end, is treating it like a real clit and imagining that it really is one. This is a pointless fantasy that has been replaced by a better reality.

Your princess’ sexuality is definitely changing under Your control – and s.he hopes it is for the better and something h.er Goddess will approve.

Although it sounds silly coming from a sissy, Your princess thinks s.he understands female sexuality better now – or s.he hopes so. s.he often thinks about dressing and attracting attention and the feeling this gives h.er is not the typical, cock-centred desire to have an orgasm. It is a much broader and more pleasurable feeling, which is exciting and fun but not based on a single body area or function. s.he enjoys the idea of being vulnerable and submissive. This is not just a pleasure – it is also being true to h.erself, which is something Your princess could only rarely experience before h.er Goddess owned h.er and took control of h.er. Ultimately, Your princess also enjoys the idea of pleasuring men and the completely different definition of h.erself that comes with that.

As for the better things, there are so many that h.er Goddess has already shown Her princess. Serving You, in any way, is the most important and the most joyful. Then there are the things that would seem small and meaningless to a Superior – let alone the Goddess Herself – but which mean so much to Your princess. These include: window shopping for lingerie and shoes; trying to learn about makeup techniques; shaving h.er legs; putting on h.er stockings and suspenders in the morning. All these and many others are better than masturbation or even sex – all the more so because Your princess knows s.he is doing them for You.

Thank you, Goddess, once again for the time and energy You have spent on training Your princess.

Real Enslavement

Goddess Kira writes:

Everyday I receive multiple e-mails from potential slaves inquiring about ownership.  Typically after one e-mail asking a few questions I never hear from them again.

Yesterday I received an e-mail from an unemployed "slave" in Belgium. Without ever meeting Me he wanted to move in with Me and had a list of things he wanted Me to do to him.  Of course he wasn't going to pay for anything.  In fact, I would have to support him since he had no job.

Recently, the best slaves I have found are on http://www.femdommesociety.com. If you are a slave looking for a Mistress or a Mistress looking for a slave I strongly recommend joining this site. Should you decide to join, please use My ID number 62156 or use this link: http://www.femdommesociety.com/register1.php?referral_id=62156.

To show the quality of the slaves on FDS I have reprinted a forum post on the FemDommeSociety Message Board by member CagedBarbie.  she did a much better job of stating what I am looking for than I could have. Are you truly looking for an owner or are you just playing games? If you are truly looking for ownership read below and then send Me an introductory e-mail: goddesskira@goddesskira.com

Ladies and submissives,

Please humbly accept this posting. i intend it only to help.  Before reading it please understand that i know there are levels of slavery, and that most people stay in what i call the "middle ground", where everything is based on safety, sensuality, and the Dominant and submissive agreeing together upon the dynamics of the relationship.

This posting is not really for the middle ground.  Having lived and participated in the middle ground for many years i strive to find the next level of power exchange.  A place where there is no negotiation between the Domme and submissive over the rules, where there is no safety words.  A place where real slavery starts.    For me true submission does not begin until the moment where i want it to stop and the Dominant says " no we are moving forward".

To this end i have created the following list of ideas that lend themselves towards real slavery.

Guide to real control over a submissive.

Real control over another person requires leverage.  If your relationship is hidden or part time in nature then there is little consequence to the submissive should he not obey.  You want to establish serious consequences for not obeying your every command.  Even if those consequences are perceived and not real..

Master list leading to complete control:
 
    Friends and family:  Others being made aware of your relationship arrangement is possibly the most powerful form of control.   This means you need to get to know who his friends and his family are.  Socialize with them.  Obtain email addresses, Facebook contact info, telephone numbers.

    Work or job:  who does he work for? who is his boss? who is his secretary?  Visit his work become friends with the key people in his social work circle.  He will be highly motivated to do as you say if he fears that you might out his submissive nature.  Remember this is the one area where he prides himself on being seen as a confident, dominant persona.
 
    Access to his home computer:   Ask for a complete list of accounts, and passwords.  The download app “TeamViewer”  is free and it allows you access to his computer from a remote location.

    Worship boards:  This is key to reinforcing your superiority.  It establishes a daily ritual in which your submissive must kneel in front of a worship board . The worship board is comprised of pictures of you, rules that he must live by, possibly a mantra that you have written.  Possibly your panties,  or personal items.   A list of goals the submissive is to achieve. Also spraying the board with your perfume is a strong influence. (we tend to underestimate the power of suggestion through smell).  Then have your submissive kneel in front of the board every day for 20 -30 minutes.

    GPS tracking:  With the advancement of technology comes the ability to track your submissive’s movement with ease.  There are many services online that you can subscribe to. Most have a small monthly fee and provide you with minute by minute tracking of your  GPS device.  A device that you can place in the submissive’s car, or lock around his ankle.  These devices are water proof units so there  is no need to remove the device. Most come with batteries that will last up to 120 days.

    Chastity devices:  Chastity is a must!  A submissive’s desire to serve is driven his sexual desire (in most cases).  Keeping him in a constant state of arousal will ensure his cooperation until training and patterns of submissive behavior become a habit.  Establishing that the penis is your property is important.  In the case of a submissive that you are feminizing and placing on female hormones you must realize that his normal male sexual drive will reduce with the introduction of the female hormones so it is critical that you replace his own male sexual drive with worship of your female sexual desires.  He must become a part of your sexual needs, and learn to live through your desire, and releases.  You must establish this as his purpose, failing to do so, will result in a potentially depressed submissive with no sexual drive.

    Cameras:  If you do not live together full time it is easy to set up internal monitoring cameras in his home.  Most cable TV providers offer a package, as well as many private online companies.  This service will allow you to access a privately coded website where you can view his home 24/7, from your computer or even your phone.  It is a highly erotic feeling to be able to check on your submissive at whim.

    Rules:  To take your Dominance from a point where it is just a part time play thing to a full time way of life requires real time rules.   For example not allowing him to sit on furniture.  Having him kneel face down, palms up when you arrive at the home.  Asking permission to pee, or setting specific times for sleep, worship, cleaning, diet, etc… are all important.  More important than the rules you set is making sure that you enforce the rules with an absolute iron fist.  He will test the boundaries. Knowing that the rules are real and that they have real importance will make him feel safe, thus allowing him to delve deeper into his submission.

    TV and Magazines:   You must control what outside information your submissive is viewing. His view of the world should be an extension of your view.  Therefore you must control what programs he is allowed to watch, what magazines he is allowed to read.  If you are feminizing your submissive then forbid him to watch sports, (unless of course he is dressed as a cheerleader) reinforcing that he is not a man.  Place only female magazines around the house, like Cosmo or In Style. If you want him to learn to cook, then leave cooking magazines around the house.

    Electric Fence: This is for the more aggressive Domme.  Shocking dog collars are commonly used to control a submissive.  Many bdsm companies now have a shocker attached to chastity devices.  A shocking device around the balls is highly recommended as a form of training.  Taking this to the next level is as simple as obtaining a shocker that works with a perimeter fence so he is under your control when you are not there.  This can be purchased at any pet store. Place the perimeter stakes outside the house ensuring your submissive does not leave the house unless you have turned off the fence. If he attempts to do so and crosses the line of the perimeter fence he will be shocked.

    Discipline:  Do not under estimate the power of consistent discipline!  The key to success is never letting your submissive get away with any infraction.  Punishing him for his infractions will establish security on his behalf this is a real.  If your schedule does not allow for instant punishment of infractions, then place a list on the refrigerator of all infractions and address them one by one when you have time.  Make sure you discuss out loud the infraction and why he must be punished.

    Power of attorney:  Slavery by law is illegal, but there are ways around this.  Aside from everything listed above, having your slave sign a power of attorney allowing you make all or any decision on his behalf gives you the ultimate power.

    Decision making:  While most of the “part time”  power exchange couples adhere to consensual agreement between the parties, true power exchange only occurs when one party has no say or choice in the decisions being made.  This is not to say that you as a Domme should not take counsel with your submissive at times, and weigh his concerns or desires, but your decisions should always be the final word.

    Body modification:  There is no greater display of ownership than for the superior to make modifications to the submissive that represent their arrangement and the superior’s control.  The most common would be a tattoo symbolizing ownership.  Others might be things like breast implants, nipple rings or castration.  Body modifications are permanent and speak to the irreversible path the two of you are on.  Done with ceremony and compassion such changes can be life altering moments that cement your Control.

    Cuckolding:  Although not for everyone, the chemistry of cuckolding your submissive,  by making him prepare you for dates with other men or women, making him watch your love making, making him clean up afterwards, or making him wait hand and foot on your lovers will take his submission to an all new level.  Use caution with cuckolding it will bring out insecurity in the best of relationships.  This is one area where some discussion and reassurance needs to be made to your submissive that he has a real purpose in your life.  That he is irreplaceable!  But that you have temporary needs that he cannot meet because of his inferior status.  Do not allow a lover to jeopardize your relationship with your submissive. Explain to any potential lover that you are a package deal.

    Feminization:  This is done to remove all elements of the male ego that may cause conflict within the submissive.  It also places the submissive in a state of mind where he is more in tune with your female needs.  Do not shy away from this form of control.  In majority of cultures around the world today and those dating back 3000 years,  all cultures have a name for a third sex, often described as feminine male who takes on the role of a slave in the household.   Some very powerful ways to feminize with immediate effects are to have your sub get fake nails applied.  Additionally long lasting fake eye lashes are the rage today and will last for several weeks.  Painting toe nails, smooth shaven body are all elements that will constantly remind your slave of his position in your house hold.  We also highly recommend corset training, hormones, and breast implants. Complete this process and you will have no need for a power of attorney; your slave will humbly accept his role as your permanent maid/wife.

    Toilet service:  Possibly one of most powerful statements that can be made is for the submissive to consume the waste of his superior.  Urine is the starting point.  Urine upon exiting the body is sterile and possesses no risk to the submissive.  Training your submissive to drink your urine can start with peeing into a cup and watching him drink it. Next is training your submissive to crave your urine.  This is a simple process if you take the right steps.  Keep him locked up in chastity, and only allow me out of chastity when you want him to drink your urine.  Allow him to play with his penis without release, while watching you pee into the cup.  Have him to continue to stroke his cock while he drinks your urine.  Then once done place him back into the chastity. Do this for a week or two and he will associate his own arousal with your urine.   His natural instincts will lead him to know when you have to go to the bathroom even before you say anything.   This formula can apply to other things like smoking and being your ashtray.


This is sissy rachel again and i wanted to add my two cents.  :)  First i thought that was a wonderful posting by CagedBarbie and i think her ideas are spot on.  Second i would like to express my eternal gratitude to the FemDommeSociety for enabling me to meet Goddess Kira (CruelKira on FDS) and many other friends.  i believe FDS is the best website for anyone interested in Female Domination in all of it's forms.  It is an absolutely fascinating place, to see the wide variety of Female Domination, both Pro and Lifestyle.  i have gone through both the FDS slave University and the sissy University and i thoroughly enjoyed both.  i highly recommend them to submissives and sissies.

Please note: Y/you will need to be a FemDommeSociety member to view some of the pages linked to in this post.   PLEASE use Goddess Kira's number (62156) if you join or use this link: http://www.femdommesociety.com/register1.php?referral_id=62156.

A Thank You Message to Goddess Kira

This is a thank You message i sent to Goddess Kira yesterday, because i was feeling so appreciative that She allows me to serve Her.  i was elated just thinking about the many benefits that i have received just from doing things to serve and help Her.

 

i have replaced some specific details <...inside braces...> that are not necessary to understanding what i was saying.  But should explain that i have a neurological disorder which has made some things i do more difficult than they were before.

 

i wrote a program yesterday to help me <...perform a task i needed to do for Goddess Kira...>.

Anyway, i want to thank You for inspiring me to work on the program, my fingers were still flaky yesterday and sometimes i got very frustrated with them.  But knowing that i was doing it for you made me press on.  Plus it has been a long time since i have done any programming that wasn't trivial, and i really had to force myself to think and try to remember how to do things.

So because of You i had to really push and exercise my brain, which i know is very beneficial to me.  In fact working on <...some other things to help Goddess Kira...> has made me have to think and exercise my brain a lot.  i feel that it has been EXTREMELY beneficial to me.  And it makes me feel so much better about myself.

 

Knowing that i can still do these things makes me so happy!  Just running that program that i wrote and <...accomplishing the task for Goddess Kira...> gives me such a thrill!  And also <...doing some things for Goddess Kira i have never done before...> i have learned so much (an old dog can apparently learn new tricks ;)

i really cannot thank You enough for allowing me to do these things for You.  It is just another way that You have improved my life, and in a HUGE way!  Thank You! Thank You!!  Thank You!!!
 

The point i would like to get across is that doing things for Goddess Kira, has been a huge benefit to myself.  And one thing that i should add is how much pleasure it gives me when i have done something to please Her.  i feel like i am on top of the world when i do something that makes Her happy!

 

-sissy rachel

 

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