Goddess Kira has put two new videos in Her Clips 4 Sale store: http://www.clips4sale.com/studio/68013/Cruel-Kira-s-Store
Saturday, August 31, 2013
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Two Slave Positions Open
Goddess Kira has two openings for slaves with specific skills. you MUST have real experience and be able to show it! Think of it just like a job application, Goddess Kira requires a resume with samples of your prior work:
WEB PROMOTION - Applicant must have experience with promoting someone or something on the Internet. Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com
BUSINESS PLANNING - Applicant must have experience with writing successful business plans. Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com
For bonus points, you can also fill out Goddess Kira's "Letter of Introduction" that is on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html
WEB PROMOTION - Applicant must have experience with promoting someone or something on the Internet. Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com
BUSINESS PLANNING - Applicant must have experience with writing successful business plans. Send resume and samples of your work to goddesskira@goddesskira.com
For bonus points, you can also fill out Goddess Kira's "Letter of Introduction" that is on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html
Thursday, August 8, 2013
How to Find a Domme
Goddess Kira receives dozens, if not hundreds of emails every day. She occasionally shares some of the really crazy ones with me. i am always stunned by the bizarre messages She receives, for example this one from yesterday:
"yo i want to be a slave i bet if i post my pic on an add and ask Would u make him your slave or date him I get most bitches saying they date me whats good hoe"
Yo, you can't make stuff like that up, LOL!
So Goddess Kira has written the following excellent advice for slaves looking for a Domme:
As an experienced Pro Domme and being very active online on many sites and various social media channels, I get a lot of requests from subs every day – too many.
Here are some guidelines for serious subs to consider before they apply to Me or any other Domme.
Let Me emphasize upfront that supplicants usually fall into a few broad categories:
• Completely inexperienced and ignorant people who think that contacting a Domme is just like dating or looking for cyber sex.
No, it isn’t!
• Internet tourists and even trolls who are just playing games online.
Dommes don’t play – look elsewhere.
• People looking to be “friends”.
Unless you are a Domme yourself, do not attempt this. Dommes have slaves, not friends.
• Raw beginners, newbies and wannabes who have never actually been owned before.
If this is just a fantasy, come back when you have matured and become serious. If you are a sincere beginner, carry on reading.
• Subs who want everything for free, no matter whether the Domme they approach is a pro or lifestyle Domme.
There is nothing for free! Even a lifestyle Domme will expect tribute in some way – with pro Dommes, it is simply non-negotiable.
• Subs who move frequently from one Mistress to another – sometimes even “serving” more than one via fake profiles.
While I understand that finding the right Mistress is not easily achieved, this sort of behavior is not practical and, worse still, it is an utter insult to the Mistress(es) involved.
• Subs who are so self-involved that their own fetishes and fantasies are given higher priority than their obedience, leading to the fatal sin of “topping from the bottom”.
No accomplished Mistress will be fooled by any pretty words or excuses that attempt to hide this and you will be rejected. Be honest first – and then obey your prospective Mistress unconditionally.
• Subs whose constant demand is for contact in real-time.
Grow up. It takes a long time to find the right Domme and longer still for Her to test whether you are worthy. Whether you ever get a meeting in real-time is up to Her.
• Subs who are so desperate that they promise everything.
Be realistic. Can you deliver on what you promise? No, I didn’t think so. Failure will not impress your prospective Owner.
• Experienced subs with baggage.
Whatever habits or wounds you have from previously being owned, your new Mistress will not welcome these into Her world.
• Subs with major commitments in the vanilla world.
Whatever your life is or has been, the critical question is how much time, energy and resources can you commit to your Domme. Whatever the answer, it is Her decision whether what you offer is acceptable.
• Sincere subs with a good attitude. Pray that you fall into this category!
IF you have not already eliminated yourself by admitting that you fall into any of the unacceptable categories above, here are some frank and candid tips on what to do – and NOT do!
DO NOT:
Communicate as if you are a refugee from Twitter. A Domme cannot be addressed as “babe”, “hun” or “sexy”! When you refer to yourself, lose the “I” focus. You are a slave – act and speak as one!
Make obvious statements that any Domme has heard a thousand times before, such as: “I’m a very submissive sub”; “I do what I am told”; “I will do anything”. These are all self-evident or delusional statements.
Brag about what you can do for a Domme. Whether you are rich, handsome, sexually experienced, whatever – these are all irrelevant. What matters is whether you can do what you are told to do.
Ask what a Domme will do for you – usually “subtly” disguised by asking what She will do TO you. Find out by obeying! Anything else is a qualified commitment at best.
Show impatience. This is not a game – it is a contract. It takes time to get it all ready.
DO:
Explain and, if possible, prove your sincerity. This is the first and hardest barrier to overcome. Can you convince a Domme that you mean it?
Provide, without bragging, some evidence that you are an interesting person.
You are a slave, but that doesn’t mean you have no identity or abilities. If a Domme wanted only mute obedience, She would get a dog. If She wanted only comfortable use, a suitable piece of furniture would do the trick.
Show you have some talents and intelligence. Slaves are used – so don’t give the impression that you are useless.
Have impeccable manners. If not, do some homework first!
Also let me remind any slaves that have made it this far, Goddess Kira has the template for a Letter of Introduction on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html
"yo i want to be a slave i bet if i post my pic on an add and ask Would u make him your slave or date him I get most bitches saying they date me whats good hoe"
Yo, you can't make stuff like that up, LOL!
So Goddess Kira has written the following excellent advice for slaves looking for a Domme:
As an experienced Pro Domme and being very active online on many sites and various social media channels, I get a lot of requests from subs every day – too many.
Here are some guidelines for serious subs to consider before they apply to Me or any other Domme.
Let Me emphasize upfront that supplicants usually fall into a few broad categories:
• Completely inexperienced and ignorant people who think that contacting a Domme is just like dating or looking for cyber sex.
No, it isn’t!
• Internet tourists and even trolls who are just playing games online.
Dommes don’t play – look elsewhere.
• People looking to be “friends”.
Unless you are a Domme yourself, do not attempt this. Dommes have slaves, not friends.
• Raw beginners, newbies and wannabes who have never actually been owned before.
If this is just a fantasy, come back when you have matured and become serious. If you are a sincere beginner, carry on reading.
• Subs who want everything for free, no matter whether the Domme they approach is a pro or lifestyle Domme.
There is nothing for free! Even a lifestyle Domme will expect tribute in some way – with pro Dommes, it is simply non-negotiable.
• Subs who move frequently from one Mistress to another – sometimes even “serving” more than one via fake profiles.
While I understand that finding the right Mistress is not easily achieved, this sort of behavior is not practical and, worse still, it is an utter insult to the Mistress(es) involved.
• Subs who are so self-involved that their own fetishes and fantasies are given higher priority than their obedience, leading to the fatal sin of “topping from the bottom”.
No accomplished Mistress will be fooled by any pretty words or excuses that attempt to hide this and you will be rejected. Be honest first – and then obey your prospective Mistress unconditionally.
• Subs whose constant demand is for contact in real-time.
Grow up. It takes a long time to find the right Domme and longer still for Her to test whether you are worthy. Whether you ever get a meeting in real-time is up to Her.
• Subs who are so desperate that they promise everything.
Be realistic. Can you deliver on what you promise? No, I didn’t think so. Failure will not impress your prospective Owner.
• Experienced subs with baggage.
Whatever habits or wounds you have from previously being owned, your new Mistress will not welcome these into Her world.
• Subs with major commitments in the vanilla world.
Whatever your life is or has been, the critical question is how much time, energy and resources can you commit to your Domme. Whatever the answer, it is Her decision whether what you offer is acceptable.
• Sincere subs with a good attitude. Pray that you fall into this category!
IF you have not already eliminated yourself by admitting that you fall into any of the unacceptable categories above, here are some frank and candid tips on what to do – and NOT do!
DO NOT:
Communicate as if you are a refugee from Twitter. A Domme cannot be addressed as “babe”, “hun” or “sexy”! When you refer to yourself, lose the “I” focus. You are a slave – act and speak as one!
Make obvious statements that any Domme has heard a thousand times before, such as: “I’m a very submissive sub”; “I do what I am told”; “I will do anything”. These are all self-evident or delusional statements.
Brag about what you can do for a Domme. Whether you are rich, handsome, sexually experienced, whatever – these are all irrelevant. What matters is whether you can do what you are told to do.
Ask what a Domme will do for you – usually “subtly” disguised by asking what She will do TO you. Find out by obeying! Anything else is a qualified commitment at best.
Show impatience. This is not a game – it is a contract. It takes time to get it all ready.
DO:
Explain and, if possible, prove your sincerity. This is the first and hardest barrier to overcome. Can you convince a Domme that you mean it?
Provide, without bragging, some evidence that you are an interesting person.
You are a slave, but that doesn’t mean you have no identity or abilities. If a Domme wanted only mute obedience, She would get a dog. If She wanted only comfortable use, a suitable piece of furniture would do the trick.
Show you have some talents and intelligence. Slaves are used – so don’t give the impression that you are useless.
Have impeccable manners. If not, do some homework first!
Also let me remind any slaves that have made it this far, Goddess Kira has the template for a Letter of Introduction on Her website here: http://www.goddesskira.com/Introduction.html
Monday, August 5, 2013
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