From Goddess Kira:
Over the past week I have spent some time on a couple of vanilla sites, where I get the same questions over and over and over. I have decided to answer some questions here so I didn't have to answer the same questions again and again.
I guess I've been spending so much time with My loyal slaves lately I have forgotten what pigs untrained men are. I won't mention the two sites because the people on it are so low class. Most of the time I felt like I was in a brothel. I am used to getting hit on, but these guys were over the top. Most of them were so hideous I would never give them the time of day.
The two most common comments I received were, "Don't you know that slavery is illegal"? After I took the time to politely explain what I was looking for, even though it was spelled out in detail in My profile, I would get "How long do i have to do that until you'll sleep with me"?
Below is some general information on this lifestyle and My expectations. I don't mind taking on a newbie as long as you are sincere and realize this is about Me, not you. The only way you will get anything is if I am taken care of first.
For general information on Female Domination and Female led relationships go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femdom
To find out what a Dominatrix is and what I do go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix
An explanation of Financial Domination: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Financial%20Domination
To find out more about the BDSM lifestyle go to
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domination_%26_submission_%28BDSM%29
A definition of a slave in a BDSM lifestyle: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Master/slave_%28BDSM%29 (this link was added to this post on 19-Nov-2013)
Here are some answers to other questions I frequently get:
Why I don't have sex with My slaves:
My slaves serve and obey Me – that is their sole purpose. In ten years of doing this I have never had sex with a slave. I'm not saying it won't happen, but it is extremely unlikely and it won't happen for a very long time. All you need think about is serving Me. If I even allow you to have sex, it certainly won’t be with Me.
Why I don't want to date you, have sex with you or want a boy friend:
I am not a Mistress for dating, finding a boy friend, a husband or sexual partners. I am a Mistress because it is who I am at the core of My being. This isn't something that I do as a job or for fun. I must be in control at all times. I enjoy seeing how far men will go to please Me. And take note that none of My slaves are ever allowed to cum, in any way, without My express permission and spend most of their time locked in chastity.
Why I won't give you free pictures:
The first time you go into a restaurant do you ask for a free meal? If you do I'm sure you are laughed at. After you prove yourself to be a good customer, the proprietor may give you a free drink or meal on occasion. I operate much the same way. Prove yourself to Me and you will be rewarded.
In addition I am a model. I sell My photos for a living. If magazines are willing to pay why shouldn't you?
Why I charge for things on My website:
I have been doing this for ten years now. In the beginning I gave things away and have found that when I give something away, slaves think it has no value. When I did give something away to slaves I thought had potential, those slaves then got greedy and never wanted to pay for anything again. In fact, they think they are so special I should pay them. Prove you are worthy and we will talk about free stuff.
Why I won't meet you at your convenience:
I'm not saying I'll never meet you, but you must first prove yourself and that will take some time. I'm not going to meet you based on one e-mail no matter how good it is. Some of My most trusted slaves have never been in My presence, never seen Me on camera, never even talked to Me on the phone. I have had slaves spend tens of thousands of dollars and years serving Me and never meet Me in person.
Why I won't do a session with you and then let you go back to your vanilla life:
I am not an escort with a whip. This is a lifestyle. I expect you to take it as seriously as I do. your entire life will revolve around Me or you will be kicked to the curb. you are to be available when I want you, not the other way around.
What subjects are off limits when talking to you:
I will answer most any question you ask as long as they are polite and respectful. One subject that is off limits is My sex life. I am shocked at how often I am asked about My sex life within five minutes of corresponding with someone.
Why I don't want to be your friend:
I have many friends and have a great life. I'm not looking for friends, but that doesn't mean it won't happen at some point. I can promise it won't happen five minutes after getting your first e-mail. I am looking for slaves. Some of My slaves do become My friends, but they are always slaves first.
And if you really want to be My friend why would you constantly send Me crude, one line e-mails telling Me what you want, without thinking about what I might be looking for? When I call you on it, why would you send Me an even nastier e-mail? Always remember it was you that contacted Me. I can count on one hand the number of slaves I have initiated contact with.
Why I won't cam verify for free:
I have cam verified on several sites such as FinDoms and FemDommeSociety. I also spend a considerable amount of time on CamContacts and iFriends. On those two latter sites you get your first 20 seconds free. you can verify Me on there.
Why I charge for Team Viewer:
Over the years I have had thousands of requests for Team Viewer. The vast majority disappear as soon as I start snooping around. you need to prove to Me that you are serious. If you are really serious about letting Me clean you out what difference does it make when I start?
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I am always willing to answer questions as long as they are polite and respectful and you are truly interested in serving. What I won't put up with is men that have no intention of serving, but want to correspond with a beautiful woman. I have been doing this for ten years and am very good at what I do. I have also developed a very good bullshit detector.
-Goddess Kira
